Birth: establishing well living

This presentation aims to introduce the specific method based on Family Constellation that the speaker has been inspired with to support pregnant couples and relieve the stress during labor.  

The Study: The “relief” of the emotional traumatic burden of the person that acquires from his/her own birth and for what this may mean for his/her later life. Childbirth is something that brings to the surface, relentlessly, all of our fears, every positive or negative record there is in us and our family tree and we have to deal with it at the same time as the childbirth process, as well as everything else that happens during childbirth on a practical level which affects the birthing woman and of course the baby being born.  

The basic question is: “Is it possible for a human to accept all of his/her life lessons without the” weight “of his/her traumatic experiences during his birth?”  

Information about the method and participants: The method is based on Bert Hellinger’s method of Family Constellation, with an addition of a structure placed within the knowing field. In this way, we gain the opportunity to relive the experience of childbirth as well as the 2.5 years following the birth and to manage it at the level of the soul, emotions, and dynamics from the view of all the main participants. The main participants are the mother, child, father, and siblings when they exist. There is no provision for professionals who participate in every birth yet.  

Main findings or trends: During the sessions, the experience of childbirth and the next 2.5 years are indeed repeated in detail. The “burdens” that each participant undertakes willingly and with great love led them to a decision or a life choice or to many other possibilities, appear and balance through the Family Constellation approach. The position that someone should own in the family is regained and together with his own, all the positions of the family because of dynamics, are regained, bringing the corresponding balance in the family system in addition to the inner emotional composition of the treatment seeker even before birth itself occur.  

Interpretations and conclusion: The method seems to have the results mentioned above and gradually, depending on the resistance of the individual, the expression of a traumatic experience in childbirth, is transformed and expressed with an increasingly positive sign by both internal and external factors.  

Conclusion: There is a profoundly serious possibility for a person to accept all life lessons without the “weight” of his traumatic experiences during his birth and even transform the experience into positive and empowering circumstances.